Me and this world - a tête-à-tête

I have been through a heart break ample of times and the last time I went through it, by God's grace, it was far more painful than ever before. Here are some things I did to get over him. Ø  Do those same activities with a group of friends, preferably friends of same gender, it helps to disassociate the activity with that specific person, thus you can start to let go, and additionally you bond better with your buddies. Ø  Do some scene, see how they react, their stupid behavior will tell you that you were lucky to get away. Ø  Concentrate on your life; make a list that you want to improve in it. Ø  Start doing things that you wanted to do but could never do because of them. Ø  It’s perfectly natural & OK to be angry for a while. Get angry, break things, throw stones, and be mad. Don’t worry, things do settle down in some time. Ø  Make new friends who don’t know what has happened and at the same time make a pact with yourse...

It is really very painful to part your ways with someone whom you have loved, trusted and have dreamt of a future together. There would be hardly anyone who hasn't been through such a experience. No matter how you part ways, it is always painful. A heavenly life becomes hell. At times pain seems to be unbearable. It feels like you would never get over it. If you right set of friends then they try to soothe the pain. If you have shallow fools around you they will keep listening to your pleas of how wrong and bad your ex is. A true friend will tell you to stop whining and look after yourself and will make sure that you really do that. When I broke up sometime early this year, a very dear friend said, “How can you cry over same thing again and again? You thought it would last all your life &it didn't last even a one blow of social pressures." Yes, it was tough phase of my life. All my dreams were shattered in one go. I even lost my temper once ...