Me and this world - a tête-à-tête

Are You Married? This one must have been the most asked question in the history of mankind. Every woman of age is asked this question. And I am sure every learned and wise woman fails to understand the context of this question and the story does not end with a simple answer of this question. It goes much beyond. A few people will march off my life with this post & a few will tell me that I should not write such stuff and go with the flow. And I am ready and will be happy with the consequences. People with either innate or cheap interest in my life will read this. You may feel I am complaining. Perhaps, Yes I am. But then what is the origin of complaints? And why shouldn't one complain once in a while? Scenario One: Stranger: Are you Married? Woman: Yes Stranger: Ok. (I have never figured out what this means) So, what does your husband do? (Why does he/she want to know? Sometimes it was to figure out social status / financial status) Woman:...

I have been through a heart break ample of times and the last time I went through it, by God's grace, it was far more painful than ever before. Here are some things I did to get over him. Ø  Do those same activities with a group of friends, preferably friends of same gender, it helps to disassociate the activity with that specific person, thus you can start to let go, and additionally you bond better with your buddies. Ø  Do some scene, see how they react, their stupid behavior will tell you that you were lucky to get away. Ø  Concentrate on your life; make a list that you want to improve in it. Ø  Start doing things that you wanted to do but could never do because of them. Ø  It’s perfectly natural & OK to be angry for a while. Get angry, break things, throw stones, and be mad. Don’t worry, things do settle down in some time. Ø  Make new friends who don’t know what has happened and at the same time make a pact with yourse...