Me and this world - a tête-à-tête

Are You Married? This one must have been the most asked question in the history of mankind. Every woman of age is asked this question. And I am sure every learned and wise woman fails to understand the context of this question and the story does not end with a simple answer of this question. It goes much beyond. A few people will march off my life with this post & a few will tell me that I should not write such stuff and go with the flow. And I am ready and will be happy with the consequences. People with either innate or cheap interest in my life will read this. You may feel I am complaining. Perhaps, Yes I am. But then what is the origin of complaints? And why shouldn't one complain once in a while? Scenario One: Stranger: Are you Married? Woman: Yes Stranger: Ok. (I have never figured out what this means) So, what does your husband do? (Why does he/she want to know? Sometimes it was to figure out social status / financial status) Woman:...

I recently had a digital break from this world at the entrance of the Land of Morning Sun... Near Darjeeling. Here are some of my random thoughts I had whilst on the break. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We never move on really, we just learn to lie more efficiently. When a man doesnt want to move out of his COMFORT ZONE, a woman's behavior is always wrong and thus he can never have her. When the relationship is true and honest, one doesnt let the other make mistakes. And when the other is making a mistake one tries to correct other's mistake. All a girl wants is a boy who will fight with the everyone and anyone for the relationship... Only once the girl needs the assurance that the boy means the relationship and will fight with anyone and everyone including the girl to be in that relationship. Then the girl remains a loyal slave for rest of her life. Some people are blessed with amazing sk...

Its been a long time since I wrote last. Recent events have really made me stronger than I thought... I had expected otherwise. For couple of days, I felt weak. But just one long weekend full of activities placed everything righteously. However, I must admit that these events have set my thoughts in some direction... For quite sometime, I was following a illusion... It was said to be love. Today, I really have a big question, What is LOVE? Is love powerful than anything else in this world? Does it really conquer all? What should you choose, love or self respect? Dignity or insults in the name of love? I was brought up to understand that love will help you grow as a human, it helps you to overcome your shortcomings, it protects and saves and never dies and it understands anger. But my experiences have shown me a exactly opposite picture. "I don't want to be with you cause you get angry!" I have heard this so many times that I started thinking getting angry is abnormal. Pe...

Your Life is solely your responsibility & choice. It is up to you how you want to spend it, with whom you want to spend it. Your decision of how to spend your life incorporates the decision of with whom you want to spend it. For spending it with someone, you have to make yourself available to be understood by that person. Again it is up to you how you want yourself to be understood & to be loved. But this doesn't happen till you give it a try to understand someone & love unconditionally. For a relationship to develop, you have to make yourself clearly known to the other one & also there should be deliberate hurt less effort to understand that person. It is all about building trust, keeping faith, accepting them the way are and giving your best to the relationship. Money can never build a relationship full of love.