Me and this world - a tête-à-tête

Are You Married? This one must have been the most asked question in the history of mankind. Every woman of age is asked this question. And I am sure every learned and wise woman fails to understand the context of this question and the story does not end with a simple answer of this question. It goes much beyond. A few people will march off my life with this post & a few will tell me that I should not write such stuff and go with the flow. And I am ready and will be happy with the consequences. People with either innate or cheap interest in my life will read this. You may feel I am complaining. Perhaps, Yes I am. But then what is the origin of complaints? And why shouldn't one complain once in a while? Scenario One: Stranger: Are you Married? Woman: Yes Stranger: Ok. (I have never figured out what this means) So, what does your husband do? (Why does he/she want to know? Sometimes it was to figure out social status / financial status) Woman:...

This is one of my favorite scenes in all the Movies:  Movie is Runaway Bride: This is where Maggie (Julia Roberts) expresses her wish to spend her life with Ike (Richard Gere) ...  Look, I guarantee there’ll be tough times. I guarantee that at some time, one or both of us is gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you’re the only one for me -Runaway Bride

A feeling of emptiness, amidst laugher and joy, it feels so hollow; deep down inside, as my mind drifts away to a world full of dreams and unimaginable possibilites; as I stare listlessly into this matrix, the beating of my heart reverberates through my soul, emotions trying to take control and I realize I am running on empty; exhausted, I try not to think, as the clouds pass by, I wonder if this tree of life has ceased to have a meaning; as the battle to live goes on, in silence I sit in the shadows, for the scars to fade away and paint my dreams afresh... Read more: Original post comes from here

Your Life is solely your responsibility & choice. It is up to you how you want to spend it, with whom you want to spend it. Your decision of how to spend your life incorporates the decision of with whom you want to spend it. For spending it with someone, you have to make yourself available to be understood by that person. Again it is up to you how you want yourself to be understood & to be loved. But this doesn't happen till you give it a try to understand someone & love unconditionally. For a relationship to develop, you have to make yourself clearly known to the other one & also there should be deliberate hurt less effort to understand that person. It is all about building trust, keeping faith, accepting them the way are and giving your best to the relationship. Money can never build a relationship full of love.