Today I can proudly say that I am destiny's
favorite child. God has given me chances far more than anyone should ask.
My first relationship failed, I learnt nothing. I
casually put the blame on my destiny and moved on...
My second relationship failed I carried on as if
nothing has happened. After all, what else could be expected from an uneducated
man.
My third relationship failed, this time God made
sure that I had learnt the lesson.
A lesson which taught me to hold myself when the
entire world was falling apart, to understand what is right and what is wrong,
to know the difference between people who would use themselves for your good
and people who would use you no matter what.
The final blow of my third relationship was when it
was confirmed that this man was a con and was simply manipulating me to fulfill
his and his family's financial ambitions. I was fortunate enough, that I
realized this well in time. He snatched my credit cards initially, when I took
them back with a innate display of anger; he demanded the details to pay for
his family's air travel.
A man who expected that I should control my anger
for filthy demeaning words, which only displayed his parent's uncivilized
character. More important is I never said a word to his parents, but to him for not standing by me.
He never believed in the relationship and kept abusing me with baseless accusations of being a lifetime failure.
He never believed in the relationship and kept abusing me with baseless accusations of being a lifetime failure.
He kept blaming me that I put him up to walk on
eggshells, whereas he was already walking on them, thanks to his own Karma, A
man who always blamed me of being dishonest, only proved that a dishonest man
feels that everyone else is going to cheat him.
Times and again, this man kept proving it that he
was not worth my time and I was fortunate that the relationship did not work
out, and I have a of feeling being blessed for life.