Me and this world - a tête-à-tête

The movie is Signs. This scene made a lot of sense to me when I was looking for base of a real relationship. Since they aren't prepared well to prevent the alien attack and they are force to take refuge in the basement of the house. Yet the alien finds the way to get close to them through disused coal chute and grabs Morgan. Graham & Merrill do they best and drive away the alien but Morgan suffers an asthma attack. Graham realizes that they left the inhaler upstairs. Then, a worried father speaks to his son to calm him down. He says “Don’t do this to me again. Not again. I hate you. I hate you! The fear is feeding him. Don't be afraid of what's happening. Believe it's going to pass. Believe it. Just wait. Don't be afraid. The air is coming. Believe. We don't have to be afraid. It's about to pass. Here it comes. Don't be afraid. Here comes the air. Don't be afraid, Morgan. Feel my chest. Breathe with me. Together. T...

I have been through a heart break ample of times and the last time I went through it, by God's grace, it was far more painful than ever before. Here are some things I did to get over him. Ø  Do those same activities with a group of friends, preferably friends of same gender, it helps to disassociate the activity with that specific person, thus you can start to let go, and additionally you bond better with your buddies. Ø  Do some scene, see how they react, their stupid behavior will tell you that you were lucky to get away. Ø  Concentrate on your life; make a list that you want to improve in it. Ø  Start doing things that you wanted to do but could never do because of them. Ø  It’s perfectly natural & OK to be angry for a while. Get angry, break things, throw stones, and be mad. Don’t worry, things do settle down in some time. Ø  Make new friends who don’t know what has happened and at the same time make a pact with yourse...

It is really very painful to part your ways with someone whom you have loved, trusted and have dreamt of a future together. There would be hardly anyone who hasn't been through such a experience. No matter how you part ways, it is always painful. A heavenly life becomes hell. At times pain seems to be unbearable. It feels like you would never get over it. If you right set of friends then they try to soothe the pain. If you have shallow fools around you they will keep listening to your pleas of how wrong and bad your ex is. A true friend will tell you to stop whining and look after yourself and will make sure that you really do that. When I broke up sometime early this year, a very dear friend said, “How can you cry over same thing again and again? You thought it would last all your life &it didn't last even a one blow of social pressures." Yes, it was tough phase of my life. All my dreams were shattered in one go. I even lost my temper once ...

This one set me in proper set of mind after a bad day. Movie is Madagascar 3.  Alex learns about Vitaly's glory and failure from the past, yet wants Vitaly to perform. Initially Vitaly denies as the fear of failure & loss of dignity have made place in his mind and heart. Loss of dignity is such a loss that can put anyone in a cocoon. Only true relations can help you come out of it. You become bitter and just lose all the confidence. The world out there is cruel and will do everything to pull you down. You need to have the positive support system along with an assertive attitude. There has to be room for failure, the insistence of being perfect eats away the joy of doing something. Alex reminds him the purpose of doing the act. Vitaly realizes that he was not performing the act to impress anyone. He was doing it only because exploring his own new limits every time was giving him the sense of contentment, a sense of being complete all within himself.  The worth...

I recently had a digital break from this world at the entrance of the Land of Morning Sun... Near Darjeeling. Here are some of my random thoughts I had whilst on the break. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We never move on really, we just learn to lie more efficiently. When a man doesnt want to move out of his COMFORT ZONE, a woman's behavior is always wrong and thus he can never have her. When the relationship is true and honest, one doesnt let the other make mistakes. And when the other is making a mistake one tries to correct other's mistake. All a girl wants is a boy who will fight with the everyone and anyone for the relationship... Only once the girl needs the assurance that the boy means the relationship and will fight with anyone and everyone including the girl to be in that relationship. Then the girl remains a loyal slave for rest of her life. Some people are blessed with amazing sk...

This is one of my favorite scenes in all the Movies:  Movie is Runaway Bride: This is where Maggie (Julia Roberts) expresses her wish to spend her life with Ike (Richard Gere) ...  Look, I guarantee there’ll be tough times. I guarantee that at some time, one or both of us is gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you’re the only one for me -Runaway Bride

A feeling of emptiness, amidst laugher and joy, it feels so hollow; deep down inside, as my mind drifts away to a world full of dreams and unimaginable possibilites; as I stare listlessly into this matrix, the beating of my heart reverberates through my soul, emotions trying to take control and I realize I am running on empty; exhausted, I try not to think, as the clouds pass by, I wonder if this tree of life has ceased to have a meaning; as the battle to live goes on, in silence I sit in the shadows, for the scars to fade away and paint my dreams afresh... Read more: Original post comes from here

This post is dedicated to one of the girls I met on my recent trek in the Himalayas. She was psychopathy personified. These are my thoughts when I was interacting with her. She hailed  from a small town of Odisha. She strongly reminded of someone I had recently parted my ways with. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Some people are naive, some are stupid and some are oversmart. You need to have smart understanding of human psychology to know the difference. The oversmart people act naive and can con you like never before. They have a concise plan ready all the time to fool you. Their plans are so carefully crafted that they treat you like their slave and you very happily accept it. Only the tip of the iceberge is seen that may warn you about their intentions. All the plans you make are always trashed for their so called better plans. If you trash their plans, you become the worst person that ma...