Me and this world - a tête-à-tête

Film: Amazing Spiderman (2012) I couldn't get the original dialogues word by word but here's the scene which impressed me the most. The scene is when Spideman attempts to rescue a scared kid stuck in the car hanging by the bridge. Spiderman offers his mask to the kid & tells him that the mask is magical, it would offer the strength (courage) to the kid to get out of his seat & move towards. The kid somehow believes and takes the mask & wears. Spiderman then helps the kid to reach atop the bridge & hands over to his dad. This scene portrays characteristics of a true friend. That they wont leave you when you need them, That they stand by you when you are at the lowest. That they help you in every possible way. They bring the best out of you, Give you strength  when you are weak and do every possible thing to make everything alright... The lesson from the childhood holds good everyday of our life: To Have A Friend, Be A Friend. No wonder at ...

The movie is Signs. This scene made a lot of sense to me when I was looking for base of a real relationship. Since they aren't prepared well to prevent the alien attack and they are force to take refuge in the basement of the house. Yet the alien finds the way to get close to them through disused coal chute and grabs Morgan. Graham & Merrill do they best and drive away the alien but Morgan suffers an asthma attack. Graham realizes that they left the inhaler upstairs. Then, a worried father speaks to his son to calm him down. He says “Don’t do this to me again. Not again. I hate you. I hate you! The fear is feeding him. Don't be afraid of what's happening. Believe it's going to pass. Believe it. Just wait. Don't be afraid. The air is coming. Believe. We don't have to be afraid. It's about to pass. Here it comes. Don't be afraid. Here comes the air. Don't be afraid, Morgan. Feel my chest. Breathe with me. Together. T...

I recently had a digital break from this world at the entrance of the Land of Morning Sun... Near Darjeeling. Here are some of my random thoughts I had whilst on the break. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We never move on really, we just learn to lie more efficiently. When a man doesnt want to move out of his COMFORT ZONE, a woman's behavior is always wrong and thus he can never have her. When the relationship is true and honest, one doesnt let the other make mistakes. And when the other is making a mistake one tries to correct other's mistake. All a girl wants is a boy who will fight with the everyone and anyone for the relationship... Only once the girl needs the assurance that the boy means the relationship and will fight with anyone and everyone including the girl to be in that relationship. Then the girl remains a loyal slave for rest of her life. Some people are blessed with amazing sk...

Relationships play a very important role in our life. There's more about them than discussing who is whose what.. It is a very crucial process of choosing your friends. They form your character. The people who stood by your side, accepted you with your defeats & flaws and when you are at the lowest of life are definitely your friends, but friends also have to play another role of a mentor. They have to tell you what is right and what is wrong. True friend will always stop you from doing something wrong and will also bail you out of an unwarranted situation. They are the first critics yet they can't see you sad. They will help you correct every wrong in your life. They will not do it all by themselves but will make you do it for your own good. These relationships do not generate dependencies, instead make you strong to stand tall all by yourself. They don't care what you are wearing, they don't care how you are looking, all they are concerned about is smile on your...

Its been a long time since I wrote last. Recent events have really made me stronger than I thought... I had expected otherwise. For couple of days, I felt weak. But just one long weekend full of activities placed everything righteously. However, I must admit that these events have set my thoughts in some direction... For quite sometime, I was following a illusion... It was said to be love. Today, I really have a big question, What is LOVE? Is love powerful than anything else in this world? Does it really conquer all? What should you choose, love or self respect? Dignity or insults in the name of love? I was brought up to understand that love will help you grow as a human, it helps you to overcome your shortcomings, it protects and saves and never dies and it understands anger. But my experiences have shown me a exactly opposite picture. "I don't want to be with you cause you get angry!" I have heard this so many times that I started thinking getting angry is abnormal. Pe...