Its been a long time since I wrote last. Recent events have really made me stronger than I thought... I had expected otherwise. For couple of days, I felt weak. But just one long weekend full of activities placed everything righteously.
However, I must admit that these events have set my thoughts in some direction...
For quite sometime, I was following a illusion... It was said to be love. Today, I really have a big question, What is LOVE?
Is love powerful than anything else in this world? Does it really conquer all?
What should you choose, love or self respect? Dignity or insults in the name of love?
I was brought up to understand that love will help you grow as a human, it helps you to overcome your shortcomings, it protects and saves and never dies and it understands anger.
But my experiences have shown me a exactly opposite picture.
"I don't want to be with you cause you get angry!" I have heard this so many times that I started thinking getting angry is abnormal.
People don't hesitate to insult you because you are different than them. And I was carried an impression that to love it to respect the differences.
How would it be to be loved back for what you are? The musics can be different, The colors can be different, the hobbies can be different. But you definitely need to have same goals... Rather one goal to be happy with each other.
If you are looking for love to make you feel nice for yourself, probably you are looking for a compromise at other end. You have to feel nice about yourself, no one else can do that for you.
Few people are obsessed with the idea of being in love. They hardly love anyone, they just love the idea of being in love. They will go round the town telling that they are in love with someone and at the same time will see numerous flaws in the one they say they love.
It is said that treat others the way you want to be treated. So love others the way you want be love also would stand true.