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Life is a decision - Love is a decision too!

Your Life is solely your responsibility & choice.
It is up to you how you want to spend it, with whom you want to spend it.

Your decision of how to spend your life incorporates the decision of with whom you want to spend it.
For spending it with someone, you have to make yourself available to be understood by that person.

Again it is up to you how you want yourself to be understood & to be loved. But this doesn't happen till you give it a try to understand someone & love unconditionally.

For a relationship to develop, you have to make yourself clearly known to the other one & also there should be deliberate hurt less effort to understand that person. It is all about building trust, keeping faith, accepting them the way are and giving your best to the relationship.

Money can never build a relationship full of love.

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